What It Means to be an Independent Visitor

By Beverly, Independent Visitor with Advocacy Focus

I really enjoy being an Independent Visitor. It is such a rewarding experience. I met Jake* 18 months ago shortly after his 15th birthday and I think both of us were a little unsure as to what to expect and what, if anything, we would have in common given our age difference of 46 years!

However, we have built a strong, trusting relationship which is based on fun but also allows us to talk about the issues of the day and what is going on in his life and his future aspirations. Our shared adventures have ranged from Go Karting, indoor climbing, attending a pottery class, and going to the theatre to see the play he is studying for GCSE. Or a simple dog walk and catch up over a coffee! I see Jake once a month and it is very easy to find times to meet that work for both of us.

It has been an absolute pleasure to see his confidence grow and his willingness to trust and educate me on the issues facing young people in care today. Being an Independent Visitor has reinforced my belief that the best thing you can give young people is your time and consistency.

I would encourage people of all ages to consider volunteering to be an Independent Visitor. It’s truly life changing for both you and the young person you support.

*Name changed to protect the identity of the people we support.

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